The holidays can feel different when you’re caring for a loved one with Alzheimer’s disease or related dementias. Between busy schedules, family gatherings, and changing routines, even joyful traditions can feel overwhelming. Yet, with thoughtful planning and flexibility, the holidays can still be meaningful for everyone. 8 Practical Tips for Holiday Celebrations with a Loved One with Dementia
For all of us, the holiday season looks different than the rest of the year. Increased family visits, parties, and travel can make the season challenging. For a person with memory loss, these changes in routine can severely disrupt their ability to cope.
To enjoy the holidays, it’s important that family and friends understand the impact of Alzheimer’s disease and dementia on their loved one, as well as their shared holiday celebrations. Here are several ways you can adjust your holidays and celebrate in ways that meet your loved one where they are in their dementia journey.
1.Simplify holiday traditions.
Choose one or two favorite activities and keep celebrations short and calm. For later stages, bring the holiday to them with soft music, cozy textures, and gentle seasonal scents.
2. Maintain a predictable routine.
Keep mealtimes, medications, and bedtime consistent. If plans change, explain simply and in advance. Consistent routines also support healthy sleep during darker winter months.
3. Create a calm and safe environment.
Clear walkways of décor and cords, remove throw rugs, offer a quiet space for breaks, and avoid flashing lights that can overstimulate. Be cautious with alcohol, since it can interact with medications and affect mood or behavior.
4. Involve your loved one in simple, purposeful tasks.
Invite them to fold napkins, arrange ornaments, stir cookie dough, or sort decorations. If mobility or cognition is limited, focus on sensory connection with music, scents, and favorite flavors.
5. Encourage reminiscing.
Use family ornaments, labeled photo books, or favorite songs to spark positive memories and intergenerational stories.
6. Choose thoughtful, comforting gifts.
Soft items like plush blankets, practical items like non-slip shoes, engaging items like large-piece puzzles or preloaded music players, and personal items like labeled photo books support comfort and connection. For food gifts, follow any dietary guidance from healthcare providers.
7. Protect emotional well-being.
Watch for sadness, withdrawal, or sleep changes. Plan activities in natural light, take short outdoor walks when possible, and offer steady reassurance. Contact a provider if you notice concerning changes.
8. Visit or connect often.
If your loved one lives in Memory Care, plan relaxed visits and bring small comforts. If you are far away, schedule video calls or send care packages. Consistent connections matter.
Celebrate the Holidays With a New Outlook
It’s important to take care of yourself, too. Caregiving can be tiring. Accept help and consider short-term Respite Care so you can recharge while your loved one receives professional dementia care in a secure, home-like setting. The holidays may look different, yet they can still be filled with love and connection. Focus on what feels comfortable today and let new traditions grow naturally.
Find Comfort and Connection at Arden Courts Memory Care
At Arden Courts, the holidays are a time to celebrate life’s meaningful moments, both big and small. Our Memory Care communities are thoughtfully designed for individuals living with Alzheimer’s disease and related dementias, providing safety, structure, and opportunities for joy throughout every stage of memory loss. From familiar routines and sensory-friendly activities to compassionate 24/7 support, we help families find peace of mind knowing their loved ones are surrounded by care that feels like home.
Download a Brochure to learn how Arden Courts can help your family make this holiday season brighter, calmer, and filled with moments that truly matter.