As we age, we forget things. It’s a natural part of life. Yet, sometimes we worry that memory loss is a sign of something more serious. Are you afraid your loved one’s forgetfulness may be Alzheimer’s?
We’re here to help you understand Alzheimer’s, and how you and your love one can cope with it.
Alzheimer’s is the most common type of dementia, but it’s not the only cause of memory loss. Other types of dementia include:
- Vascular dementia — often related to stroke, it affects the ability to make decisions, plan or organize.
- Lewy body dementia (LBD) — causes symptoms similar to Alzheimer’s, along with sleep disturbances, hallucinations and muscle rigidity.
- Frontotemporal dementia (FTD) — leads to changes in personality and behavior, and trouble with language.
What is Alzheimer’s?
Older people are more likely to develop Alzheimer’s, but we don’t yet know why some have it and others don’t.
How do I know if my loved one may have Alzheimer’s?
Alzheimer’s symptoms begin with memory loss, but progress to confusion and the inability to perform daily tasks. Talk to your doctor if your loved one:
- Is confused about day and time
- Can’t remember recent events
- Has trouble focusing on tasks
- Has trouble doing things that usually come easily
- Doesn’t recognize family or friends
- Has trouble communicating or finding words
- Has mood swings
- Gets lost easily
- Becomes clumsy or uncoordinated
Here’s a checklist you can use to record changes in mental alertness or abilities. Take it to your loved one’s doctor’s appointment.
How do I support a loved one who has Alzheimer’s?
Dealing with Alzheimer’s can be overwhelming. Stop. Take a deep breath. With the right tools and a little help, you can face it head on.
It can feel like Alzheimer’s robs our loved ones of their memories and their lives. Avoiding the issue might feel like a good way to reduce the emotional and physical stress it brings. But Alzheimer’s won’t go away. Empower yourself. Work with a care team to understand the disease and the care options. Together, you can find much-needed support.
Don’t ignore the symptoms or delay talking to a doctor. Left untreated, this condition can lead to an accident or serious incident.
Ask for help
Caring for a loved one with Alzheimer’s is a big responsibility, but you don’t have to do it alone. Ask your friends and family for help, and call on other resources when you need them. Look into:
- Support groups — Connect with others who share your challenges. Find a local or virtual support group to get help, perspective and advice.
- Home care — Home visits from experienced Heartland Home Health Care and Hospice specialists help your loved one in the comfort of his or her own environment. Home care teams can help with medicines, physical therapy and social interactions.
- Memory care communities — If your loved one needs more care than you can provide at home, consider a community specially designed for people living with memory loss. It’s never an easy decision to move loved ones from their homes, but it may be the best choice to ensure their health and safety. Our memory care center, Arden Courts, offers personalized care for all levels of dementia. Our health care professionals are trained in the latest memory care techniques.
- Skilled nursing and rehabilitation — When considering care facilities, keep in mind skilled nursing and rehabilitation facilities can provide support for people living with some stages of Alzheimer’s.
Heartland Health Care Centers and ManorCare Health Services provide a structured, engaging environment where people with dementia can maintain an independent lifestyle for as long as possible.
Be patient with yourself
Alzheimer’s is an emotional disease. It’s okay to be frustrated or hurt by a loved one’s memory loss. Be honest with yourself about how you feel and find healthy outlets for your emotions.
You will experience moments of triumph, joy and connectedness with your loved one. Pause to appreciate those moments.
Call on us
We offer support, education and information for caregivers and family members. If you have questions about Alzheimer’s and the types of care available contact the Arden Courts near you.
If you or a loved one has been diagnosed with Alzheimer's disease learn how an Arden Courts Memory Care Community can help in our case study.